Yup. I am a 26yr-old lady and there are definitely younger dudes I find attractive. But I have zero desire to date anyone under 24. (Also, note that not even 22yr-old women want to date 22yr-old men).

If I maybe found the worst profile on okcupid, how do I share it with you?

I'm assuming he means she still has a kinja account and can comment, so she'd get a notification and maybe see them.

Yeah, I think the violent, aggressive pitbulls are the rare exception, but when pitbulls *are* aggressive, they seem to cause more damage than most other dogs.

Damn. My bff is dyslexic, and didn't learn to read until she was almost 10 (better than 17 but still crazy-late), and it was bc her best friend at the time taught her. Now, she's in med school, so suck on that, teachers who thought she was dumb.

My school had a Morris men dance every Christmas. That, a reading of the Grinch, and a rendition of Dar Williams' "The Christians and the Pagans" comprised our Christmas assemblies.

GOOD Italian restaurants are worthwhile. Homemade pasta, homemade, richly flavorful sauces with ingredients you often don't want to buy in bulk...cheapie Italian restaurants though, not worth it.

"I don't agree with domestic violence, but..."

BUT WHAT IF RBG RETIRES FIRST!?

She clarified though that it can be done in the context of comedy. I think she's right that the humor of her show is the wrong *kind* of humor.

Let this be the most traumatic thing she experiences in her young life.

Ahhhh baby high-five and baby fist-pound!!!!!!!

Yes, absolutely. There should be a phone call or SOMETHING to confirm, 100%, that everything is coming from the right person. These dudes definitely did not act wisely. But — especially considering the men did not go through with it — the onus is on the person who deliberately constructed the awful situation in the…

What? What does that even mean? If they drove cars *what* way?

I'm not saying they deserve cookies. I just don't think they can be judged one way or the other based on responding [not fully, thankfully] to ads that they believed were genuine and consensual. For all we know, the content of the emails DID include a safe word, which, I agree, would be very very important in…

I ask people where they're from, and I figure they'll answer with whatever info they want to give. They might say "California," and I'll say "oh, what part?" Or they might say "California, but my parents were both born in Brazil and I go there a lot." If people want to share their background with you, they will. If…

I have literally had this conversation (well, change the places and the specifics, but otherwise, word for word). After he asked me where I was "really from" (DC for me, New York/Boston for my folks), I asked him what, exactly, he was getting at. He turned red and shuffled off.

...it's not a law when you are not acting suspiciously. In fact, the bill of rights protects against "unreasonable search." While the definition of what's reasonable and what's suspicious are certainly subjective, it is highly, highly, likely that deeming this woman 'suspect' was pretty racially motivated.

I have *once* wanted to, but it's bc we were the only three people on a bus while the driver was taking a smoke break. I made some passive aggressive sighs and looked out the window. That is the absolute most dramatic reaction allowed to PDA (unless you're really good friends with the couple, in which case, throwing…

I am the opposite. Research takes me forever, and I go down every rabbit hole I come across. But once I have all my thoughts/all my research, I can bang out a good paper pretty quickly. Still, I always always panic that I don't get it done in time.