I think I have dated all these guys

And that’s just always the way it’s been. The emotional labor of keeping a relationship together, of making sure a man doesn’t drink, of not saying anything to make him angry, of not getting black eyes is somehow women’s responsibility. That’s where this “both sides” bullshit comes from.

So proud of her. Being a woman of color is a constant trial by fire. I hoped she raised a shit-ton of money after this abuse. 

AOC is a boss!

Half of my family is from around those parts. Trump has no idea what he has gotten himself into. No way Portland is going to back down. I mean, these are the people who literally made it all the way to the end of the Oregon Trail! 

Where are you getting that? Just curious. I don’t see how anything she has done justifies his actions. 

Ok this story wins although technically it’s the lamp’s fault. Box of kittens saved! 

I’m so lucky that didn’t happen. I really should have died so many times. 

Please laugh all you want I have shared that story in front of hundreds of people and everyone always laughs. I made it out of my 20s alive so let’s please laugh at the old me! 

I was a hot drunk mess in my 20s so there are so many stories.

Here for the drunk stories

He headbutted her? OMG that is awful. I feel so sorry for Amber Heard. My heart goes out to all women in similar situations, most of whom do not have the resources Heard has. 

I’m disappointed in both his exes for wading into Amber’s allegations. Ok, so he didn’t beat you 100 years ago. People change. Addiction and alcoholism get progressively worse. Dynamics can be different in different relationships. I would never assume another woman was lying about my ex.

I’m sure the GOP is standing outside her hospital room door waiting for the opportunity to get rid of her somehow.

I guarantee that none of these asshats blubbering about statues have ever been into the inside a museum. I vote we replace all the Confederate statues with the works of Sara Lucas. 

I second that. I do not get it. But, I’m an old.

It’s from a well-cited study by the NIH. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2968709/

It IS obvious because the only Governor to announce he’s positive with COVID is Native (Cherokee Nation)! I don’t understand how he could side with Dump rather than protect his own people (Oklahomans AND Cherokees) but I guess that’s the GOP for you.

The wife beater apologists are here, on schedule.

I do not understand this Hamilton shit. I am not paying money to see colonizers dance around to music, I don’t care how good the music is.