I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter, Pink. Had you chosen her name?

This is a bit different from your situation, so I’m not sure if this will be helpful, but Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS) is a method that works for a lot of families with children with different needs. I haven’t researched it in depth (I mostly learn about it how it’s done in practice from the Facebook group “The…

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