Sorry dude, maybe if you didn’t want to get caught you should have kept your legs shut.

i initially read that headline as

I wasn’t HITTING on you, GEEZ. Ego much? I was just trying to be NICE and anyway you’re fat and ugly.

Hey there.

First of all, this woman doesn’t understand her own damn religion, because by their own standards, the Pope is going straight to hell for being and idolater, so.

If his privacy is so goddamned important, then he knew what he was doing was wrong and he shouldn’t have done it.

If you’re having nonconsensual “private” conversations on LinkedIn then you deserve to be shamed. I’m not sure how you can justify this, really. I’m baffled.

I sure don’t. At least not enough to think he should get off scot-free for their sake.

Woman here. What this man did was total bullshit and inexcusable. He needed to be called out, but I don’t think he needed to be publicly shamed. Women are shamed in myriad ways on a daily basis: Breastfeeding in public, not breastfeeding; the way we dress, the careers we choose, decisions we make regarding are…

Exactly, I don’t understand what the fuss is about. Don’t email women on a professional, social-networking site to tell them they’re pretty. Why is this such a hard pill to swallow??

Oh my god thank you for this

I see what you are saying. Strangely, out of the aforementioned “undesirable traits,” ‘not having a job’ is very very fluid, and ‘not having prospects for the future’ is pretty fluid – people change, inherit money, go back to school at increasingly advanced ages, and so on. Only the height thing is not malleable. I…

You’re funny.

It’s a strange situation where almost any woman, regardless of education or occupation or living situation, can get a hookup if they want one just because the market is flooded with needy dongs.

it sounds like your job/the money you do or don’t make is not the (or at least not the only) reason why you might be struggling with dating. bitterness against women is a HUGE turn-off, and lots of us keep an eye out for it because it’s a red flag that often signals someone who will be controlling and abusive in a…

I think one of the reasons that internet dating is so hard is because it encourages people to be shallow and have some fairly arbitrary standards. There’s always another picture to look at, so why not reject the one that isn’t totally hot? I’d prefer this height or someone within x miles of me and I don’t even need to…

I notice you cut out the first sentence, which was the whole point of the post: “Are we asking men to evaluate their biases, as this article is asking women to evaluate theirs?” The rest is basically examples based on my experience that suggest to me that we do not, and that feminists tend to use this topic to snipe…

Yes. On reddit he makes a lot of noise.