Can we also agree that “adulthood” doesn’t really start until, like, 35? That’s when I came out of my first marriage and finally paid of my student loan and everything started to feel settled. My 20s were a shit show and early 30s even worse...

or POT LEDOM (whispers: “top model backwards”)

Same! Was married to a man for almost a decade before I found out he had not one, not two, but four other women who he had established lives with. No kids or anything, but like full on “met the family, vacations with them, work parties, shared apartments, etc.”. I found out because I went to refinance our mortgage and…