If somebody were sexually attracted to children and never acted on it at all and sought out psychiatric help, maybe I wouldn’t consider them a bad person.

That doesn’t make it okay. Some people are sexually attracted to children, that doesn’t mean society should accept or tolerate pedophilia. Even if it’s just simulated.

You really think pornographers care about safe words? Please. Try living in the real world for change. If you see the shit on sites like Facial Abuse it’s pretty clear these dudes do not care.

Sex and violence should not mix. End of story.

You’re deluding yourself.

Rape fantasies aren’t good or normal. If you get off on the idea of raping someone or being raped you should see a psychiatrist.