So many more ways to skin a cat. I am judgeing her that a micropenis is reason to kick someone out mid-hookup. Some of my most satisfying sex was with people with whom i’ve never actually had P-in-V sex!

I’m just ashamed anyone is that shallow.

What, you don’t trust random people who say they want to come to your house to spoon you and nothing else? It must be hard to be so gaurded ;)

Awwwww, I’m sorry to hear that you went through that. :(

You haven’t seen the 2nd season of BoJack??? Get out. GET OUT!!!!!

True enough. But I didn’t read it AT ALL as being endorsed/sniggered at by Tracy; she seemed to me to be pretty clearly on this side of “that’s mean.”

Regarding micropenis: if, due to said micropenis, the guy knows what he is doing with his hands and mouth, I’d say the chances for a stellar hookup just increased by 70-90%.

Tracy? I really don’t think so. She says immediately after that, “These anecdotes are really interesting (if brutal)...” The original author at Marie Claire, maybe, but I haven’t read the source article. If there IS any “giddiness” expressed in the MC article, it’s probably due to the turnabout of a guy not meeting…

Please note that literally every single commenter who’s remarked on that particular bullet point has been pretty emphatic that this is not okay, and that Nicole is a POS. Because I mean honestly. Fuck you, Nicole. No dick for you.

That chick is either really immature, an asshole, or both. #NotAllWomen, etc.

Yeah, that’s just a shitty thing to do. I can’t imagine how that would feel. And who is to say he’s not great at oral?

Yeah — I mean, look, let’s be honest: your joint mission is to bang, not to be best friends or sexual therapists, so it’s cool if “just talking” isn’t gonna do it for you. Sex shouldn’t only be about the guy getting off, etc.

Like the problem is usually the OPPOSITE of that. Jesus christ we’ve exchanged fewer than ten words, I don’t need to see the veins yet, bro.

Eh, if I invite you back to my place, you can expect to stay over and to get really excellent coffee in the morning. Unless I belatedly realize you’re an asshole or an idiot, in which case gtfo.

I’m a big fan of not sleeping over, just because it’s nice to wake up in my own bed. And any reason for wanting to leave is fine. But also, I wish that one girl’s reason hadn’t been explicitly body-shaming.