This hit me right in my gut, and it making me think again about some stuff going on in my life. Thanks for sharing this.

I thought second/middle children were supposed to be the troublemakers? It’s like their job. Birth order and all.

I’ve been going out nearly 2 years with a guy 26 years older than me. We met on okcupid when I was 23. I messaged him that I was into Humphrey Bogart carnally. Maybe it’s genetic? My dad was 28 years older than my mom.