I’m all for paid parental leave, bingo stated that they’re all for paid parental leave but when you make the argument “we should have paid parental leave because my kid died at daycare” that has the implication that the issue is daycare safety and claiming that it’s not doesn’t make that implication go away

Bingo isn’t arguing against paid parental leave, they’re just saying that the argument this woman is using isn’t helpful because it’s just going to create stigma against parents who choose to use daycare, it’s not an argument against her goal, it’s an argument against the way she’s trying to reach that goal

those studies don’t really prove that paid parental leave lowers the prevelance of SIDS though

that’s an argument for why we need to subsidize day care in this country but just because unlicensed day cares are not safe doesn’t mean that ALL daycares are not safe

I feel like if the person is 11 days away they should just give them the maternity leave

I think by making “my kid died at day care” the thing you’re using to convince people to support paid parental leave you’re implying blame on the day care because the implication if her child wasn’t in day care he would still be alive

kind of...my issue with the “you shouldn’t have kids if you can’t afford them” is that lower class people make up a larger chunk of society than the rich so if lower class people stop reproducing that will leave us with an aging population which is bad for society, it ignores that there are economic barriers to birth…

YES! unlicensed daycares are more dangerous than licensed daycares because they tend to have more children and staff who don’t have proper training and while I’m not comfortable blaming the provider when I don’t know what happened and don’t know if she did anything wrong, training day care providers and subsidizing…

yeah, I’m like, is paid parental leave important? yes Is it worth implying that daycare is evil and kills children and mothers who put there kids in day care are bad parents to get it? hell no

I’m the same way, if my boyfriend is just hanging out with his friends (male or female) playing video games or whatever, I couldn’t care less, if he does something I would have wanted to do with his friends and not me, I’m pissed.

dude, I’m the same way, I’m a generally jealous person but I get that it’s more me being irrational than him being untrustworthy. I’m also kind of lucky that my boyfriend understands were I’m coming from (he was cheated on in a previous relationship so he has baggage around that) so we can acknowledge it without…

yeah, I just don’t understand, why would you say that? why would you think that?

it’s kind of surprising who’s not on tinder, I had a friend who’s gay who had signed up for tinder and she kept getting matched with men because apparently in my area there aren’t a lot of lesbians on tinder

eww, the only upside of this is that they let you know that you should run away right off the bat

if there aren’t enough people in your specified age range on tindr they will show you people outside of that because they have to give you the impression that there are endless options

Date rape messages? what?

I feel the same way and that’s also why I feel like the only way to change the tipping system is to completely ban tips, I get the tipping optional is ideal but I don’t think it’s possible

for me her it’s not her face, it’s her hair, which makes sense if what people are saying is true

I love how the t-pain quote is so specific that you know that he’s talking about someone in particular

I thought it did too until I read your comment