No, my point was broader and simply responding to "Who has that kind of time every day." Daily BJs would not be important enough to me, and presumably my hypothetical wife, to dedicate 20 minutes a day. Some other things might be. I am also naturally skeptical of the "no time no time" excuse when it comes to sexual…

Honestly, I would refrain from doing it. It sucks if he's cheating on her, but you don't know for sure (maybe they have an open relationship, maybe he did it because he was curious, maybe he did it then chickened out), and I think in the long run there's more risk of harm than good.

How so?

You owe your partner fidelity, no matter how "strong" you think you are. There are infinite ways to love someone, and if you have a relationship where you both accept that you can seek sexual and emotional connections elsewhere, then you can still be faithful if you're both open with it. But anyone who thinks they…

Unfortunately they frequently go hand-in-hand.

Because they're narcissists who make themselves the center of the universe, and everyone else has value only to the extent they benefit the narcissist.

Not that I support it every day, I'm probably the only guy on the planet who doesn't really enjoy them that much, but if you can't free up 20 minutes a day for something you think is important, you are living life wrong.

And if your husband at some point becomes the dominant partner, would you accept his cheating on you?

It would be interesting to get his views on it. It could mean he doesn't care. The way she phrased it, however, makes me think there's a decent chance he does care, hates it, but is terrified of losing her/divorce.

According to the story you linked the judge says it goes to credibility about prior sworn testimony. I don't know enough about the case to judge its relevance to that fact, but just because the subject matter is abortion doesn't make something automatically not usable to impeach. If I testify that I was in Albany at…

I honestly don't see what you're seeing re boys.

And despite this you have the incredibly obnoxious boomer contingent whining about how kids don't have to do work in school, everybody gets As, etc.

She is super cute. To totally objectivy/patriarchilize her.

Probably not; I am fairly sure the US won't/can't extradite if it would involve a violation of the accused right's under the Constitution, and this is double jeopardy.

Honestly I would never do what he's doing — I would personally have a moral and practical issue with it — but the way some of the commenters here have shoehorned this story into "terrible-terrible-man-child-looking-for-woman-he-can-oppress" is kind of simplistic. I don't know this guy's experience; maybe every woman…

I will note that there are a small but not negligible number of women who have the same attitudes towards American men and look overseas because "European/Latin/Whatever men are just so much better/hotter/more romantic." They just don't have a website that caters to that belief.

No prob, I hope I didn't scare you by revealing it took until my 30's to break past that; it doesn't take most people that long, I just take a long time to learn lessons :) You are almost certainly not a sociopath as sociopaths tend to have an easy time interacting with people and getting ahead, and they definitely…

That is the best summary of every Jezebel article on science ever posted I have ever seen.

I think women's profiles have their own tedious lists of things that most people don't really care about. You like wine and travel? WHO KNEW? I was going to list liking The Secret as one of those things but then I realized I do care very much to know that that book changed your life because then I know not to go…

I would let it go. I think he might realize that he didn't treat you right and clings to the Harvard narrative as a way to sort of redeem himself, to convince himself that he wasn't a totally terrible person. I would let him have that. Because he gave you a kidney. That's pretty major.