It’s fine to be honest with yourself and recognize that you’re at a point where you need—for your own well-being—to spend time around people with particular values or lifestyles.

Re: the Obama point—THANK YOU. I voted for Sanders in the primary, but I’m so sick of listening to the same commenters who whine about Clinton being no different than Trump/the actual antichrist wax poetic about how much they’ll miss Obama.