The state of the bathroom doesn't really matter. Men are parents too, and often primary caretakers. It only makes sense for there to be changing stations in the Men's room.

Having worked in restaurants as a student, I can concur with the "men not less clean" side. Some women are slovens too.

Protip: sometimes the changing table is in the handicap accessible stall. If you don't know to look there, you may miss it.

Does the U.S. not do the "family washroom" thing? In Canada, it's pretty common (although by no means guaranteed) that there'll be a men's, a ladies' and then a single unit "family washroom" with a changing station for Mom/Dad to use, and usually a bench so you can park any older kids who can't be left alone outside.…

I'm a woman and have no shame in using a men's restroom if I have to. Men's restrooms are by far cleaner than most women's restrooms. Even at work I have to wipe down the seat because the woman who used it before me left pee all over the seat. Women can be pretty gross, especially when it isn't in their home and…

Father of two here, and I am totally in agreement, but I'm going to offer a different solution: unisex bathrooms. Every place I go that has gotten rid of the his/hers distinction has gone ahead and provided a changing station. Raw deal for ladies, having to share a bathroom with borderline wild animals, but it's a…

us ladies are kinda gross.....

The onesies get easier.

Nope, women's bathroom's are way worse.

The dude needs to go to different places. My kids are long out of diapers, but more often than not, if a restroom had multiple stalls, it had a changing table.

As someone who worked in a restaurant for years, don't make that assumption. Men can fuck up a bathroom, yeah, but women can also be naaaasty. Put the changing station away from the urinals and it should be fine.

I am nauseous to support a cause célèbrite, but dear god this would be nice to have. I had to change my daughter on the floor of a bathroom stall the other day. She thought we were playing patty-cake; i thought we were playing "keep her hands out of the dried piss".

Of course men's restrooms should have diaper changing areas. Their absence is a throw back to the notion that changing diapers wasn't on the list of men's responsibilities.

We are trying to figure out how to make sure that she behaves at my wedding.

I had a Momzilla that tried to make my wedding about her, too. Was crying all morning, didn't want to/barely came to the hotel room to help me get ready, yelled at me in the middle of the reception, and didn't speak to me the next morning at breakfast, or for the next week before we left for our honeymoon.

Dios mio!

Also, how fucking insulting is it to suggest that the only reason I would ever give you sex is if you did something for me?

Neither of us clean. We hired someone to and I. do. not. feel. bad.

This "choreplay" thing has always bewildered me. We both do shit around the house because shit needs to get done. We do the sex because we enjoy it. The two are completely decoupled.