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You’re right. I don’t think it’s impossible to love your work either, I just think it take a long time to get into the right position that suits you o that you can realise you love it. I think being young and starting out in work is horrendous and like most rites of passage I would never want to do it again. But

“There’s no reason it should have to be such a “challenge” to treat one another considerately. It’s actually pretty easy to make the decision to respect someone. I have had killer mentors. They taught me how to fact-check over the phone, omit false ranges, print hard copies of drafts and mark them longhand, and give

But isn’t this just the reality of starting out in your career? This is exactly how I felt 12 years ago and I only stopped feeling this way about three years ago. That’s why it’s work. I also don’t expect to feel particularly satisfied with my work, but I’m Irish, not American, maybe that’s makes a difference too. I

I’ve kinda been in this woman’s shoes. And I don’t talk about it very often, but here goes for anyone interested:

This. The power dynamics. The coerced consent. The normalisation. The culture. Talking about these issues turns the consent debate from questioning the victim to questioning the abuser.

I agree, the Jenner joke was actually sexist (women drivers). Not transphobic. And given Ricky is a feminist, I think his joke was intentionally inflammatory, rooted in British irony. That does make it hateful, just provocative. He was in a room full of deeply privileged people who are, most of the time, full of BS.

Ricky Gervais is an incredibly compassionate and intelligent man in an absurd situation, surrounded by celebrities and their sycophants. He does his best to burst their bubbles with his brand of humour - and no, he does not care what you think about him. Maybe its a cultural thing, I’m Irish and we are scrappy and

I wore that ‘viola’ BHLDN dress AS MY WEDDING DRESS! (They moved it to ‘Mother of the bBride’ after I bought it, and to my utter dismay.) Whose mother would turn up in any of these?!