This breaks my heart. That’s such a deep level of loneliness to deal with, and you truly deserve so much more. You mentioned that you started getting out more and being more adventurous. Maybe you could try to expand on those things by further developing those interests (like running or yoga where you could meet new…

That’s such an excellent point. And it should serve as motivation to try to live the best life for yourself no matter what happens. One of my dearest friends posed the same question to me when I first separated from my husband, and it was really hard to hear and process at the time.

I keep coming back to this — crying every single time I read it. This is so beautifully written. I’ve had similar experiences, and learning to be alone is a work in progress. I’m in my early thirties, so I have a long road ahead. And I know realistically anything could happen. I could meet a new love who will love me…

Thank you for writing this. Being separated and not being particularly close with my own parents (my in-laws were amazing, and I still miss them a lot), it’s such a strange feeling to spend the holidays alone. Friends are great, and we take the time to catch up with each other. But they still have their own plans, so…

Sending you lots of light and hugs! For numerous reasons (including being separated/in the process of a divorce), this is my first Christmas being spent alone.

This is the only reasonable back story.

Happy birthday!

Definitely start the job hunt now if it hasn’t been done already. If there’s a chance to find something new before being fired, then that’s the best route to take. Being fired would give your friend a chance to collect unemployment, if needed, but it isn’t the best solution if there’s a way to get out before it even…

This makes me happy.