My fiancé and I have also decided to not have children (we just don’t really want to). NOBODY believes we won’t and the most common reaction is “you’ll change your mind”. All women want children!

I also appreciate that several people on that train got involved, as opposed to looking the other way. But as others have noted, that train was full of POC, so that might’ve had something to do with it.

For an administration full of criminals, that party looks super bland and boring.

To be fair, I’d feel threatened as hell by Miss Cambodia too.

I mean, a lot of adult men have never had to worry about whether the person they’re sleeping with is of age. I’m concerned about the men for whom this is a problem. It really shouldn’t be.

That was my first thought too. Jennifer Lopez is a beautiful woman but she’s a mediocre singer and actress.

Wow that is even more gross than I thought it would be.

OMG That would be a wedding MIRACLE!

The other day, I freaked out that I won’t have enough flowers. First of all, my wedding is outdoors in a redwood forest the whole point of that was that I wouldn’t need so many flower because...forest. But apparently now I want to go hundreds of dollars over budget because I don’t know why.

That sounds awful and hilarious:) Our families are totally weird around each other! His family’s weird around themselves because his parents are divorced and it was not friendly. Arranging the seating is going to be fun.

I am grateful for your advice. I’m getting married in April and I’ve been having all kinds of weird anxieties that I never thought I’d have (I wasn’t even sure I’d ever get married). Biggest one is that I have to invite people from work I don’t want to invite because I work with 4 people and we’ve known each other for…

Thank you and yes to all of this. I especially get annoyed by “aren’t you afraid you’ll get mugged?” questions because that only seems to matter when it affects them. If the neighborhood is high-crime, it never matters that there are families and children that live in those conditions, it only becomes an issue when…

“You’re an elitist!!!!” says the person defending people who would rather pay thousands of dollars a year than send their kids to public school. I wish you people would learn the meaning of words.

What (even “liberal”) white people will do to keep children of color out of “their schools”...I mean, they’re very methodical. I went to school in a very wealth, white suburb because they HAD to accept some students from the neighboring poor, majority-POC city (where I lived). I didn’t realize it at the time, but the w…

“Look at all those lazy immigrants, taking American jobs and mooching off the system” say a bunch of people who have never had to think about where their food comes from.

Wow, his bar for kindness is set pretty low.

“Pelosi, meanwhile, in a speech on election day and the day after, called for bipartisanship, unity, and the need to ‘seek common ground’”

Listen, we all gotta do what we gotta do but marrying a man because he’s rich doesn’t exactly scream “independent woman”.

As a Latina, I would like to apologize for the fact that ONLY 68% of us aren’t pendejas.