Excuse to posts a lovely wedding picture of my mother, about to celebrate their 50th anniversary next month? Accepted! Say hello to October of 1965.

Today DC has basically been: Happy Pope Day all day!

Why is she adorably handing the pope letters, when she should be busy building a beautiful wall?

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True facts: sunfish were created from a drawing that God did in 2nd grade titled “my pet goldfiss”. God got a C-.

WHY ARE YOU RUNNING AWAY FROM ME I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS

Sunfish are so weird looking. They have really big ones at the Monterey Bay Aquarium. I’ve always thought they look like a giant fish head with no body.

Coming this fall to a television near you: Bros Discover Things

43 year old voluptuous lady savoring her invisibility power as well!

Because it’s only “real” to dudes when they can imagine how they would feel if someone did something bad to ladies in their lives. Like, “those hypothetical lady-people out there can go fuck themselves- whatever happens to them sucks and all, but if someone wrote about fucking my sister, goddammit, I would beat them…

Right? Shouldn’t the main women you should be worried about hurting or upsetting be the ones who you disclosed intimate details about in really disrespectful and dehumanizing ways? Like the woman you raped at the fucking hospital of all places and then laughed about?

Damaged goods is such an ugly gendered term.

Projection comes as no surprise.

I’m sure a lot of us struggle with insecurities around dating. But reasonably healthy people do not use it as an excuse to treat others like crap and brag about how they treat others like crap.

The disconnect is happening because you can’t connect sex with hatred. It’s rapist culture. Sex isn’t occupying the same space as it does for you or I. It’s not about love or sensuality. For these “people,” it exists in a toxic melange of desire for power and to degrade that which they hate. Sex is a commodity and a…

And hark at him referring to a sexual partner as ‘damaged goods’ whereas he is nobly struggling with insecurities.

BROpologies.

Okay, stop it. Do not compare the CLEARLY SUPERIOR DAARIO to this weasel.

Yeah, the “I really should be pitied rather than scorned” vibe. No thanks.

Most of my life I’ve struggled with insecurities around dating.