I don't have a problem sharing a bed with another man, and in fact for some events I go to there wind up being four or five men sharing a small hotel room and pairing up two to a bed.

Something being a "big deal" or not is entirely dependent on reaction to it. Something is, by definition, only a big deal if people make it one.

Because for some reason or other, I've become newly infatuated with referring to myself as a variety of [adjective]-virgin phrases...

Abso-fucking-lutely brilliant.

Yeah... every three months is approximately on target.

Wait a minute... not actually rape because they wanted it and just wouldn't say so? My, what an incredibly novel idea.

No benefit of the doubt?

I am a man.

I dunno... a breast taking a giant leap sounds like a bad thing.

See my posts further down for clarity, but long story short:

Right, rather than reply individually to everybody:

It's not rude at all to suggest that. In fact, at least once, I've gotten angry at someone for how adamantly they refused to consider that possibility.

I haven't stated a position on what way the world should work, and I don't know what "flipping" you're reading.

Not sure what happened here. Either I responded to the wrong post and don't know which one I meant to respond to or misread yours with hilariously catastrophic inaccuracy.

Maybe it's just me, but it seems like it would be a lot more difficult to speak out against a meritocracy outlined that clearly and neutrally unless you actually have concerns about how level the playing field is.

People talking about meritocracy were never going to consider that in the first place.

Something like that, yes.

about which nobody claiming to want meritocracy

Remove names, genders, ethnicities, and identifying information of that sort from college applications?

"or every service where you want to see this behavior curbed has to adopt polices that effectively dismantle anonymity"