the white people outraged about velma

This is so true.

Also...

I’ve never seen research on it, but it makes total sense that the bully/offender doesn’t remember what happened. Unless they were called out when the action happened, it doesn’t have any emotional salience for them, so they can go on about their lives after they did what they did. The person who was bullied/offended…

Aww, that was nice of McConnell to give them permission to attend. I hope they didn’t break their curfew.

Most people were probably jerks to someone else in their lifetime in ways they don’t even remember. It wouldn’t surprise me if it came out that Leona Lewis was a dickbag to someone.

Oh now I’m remembering all the guys who had pictures of motorcycles in their profile and I’d message and ask about the bikes and they’d be like oh yeah I sold that. WTF you cannot imply you are a bike guy if you are no longer a bike guy.

Maybe he meant salt surfing!

This man is not the pure victim he purports himself to be. Like I said yesterday, both things can be true. He can be racist and Teigan can also be a bully.

On vacation I guess?  But certainly not enough to mention it at all, nevermind three times.  Aspirational indeed.

Might this case of bullying be one where everyone involved just sucks?

Kathmandu guy: Yeah, that is lame. It is like posting a picture of a saxophone. “I don’t play the sax, but I would like to.”

I met my husband on match, but it was (christ on a cracker ) 16 years ago. He was ready to give up on match, and was giving it one more day, which was the first day I had signed up. 

Didn’t Craigslist remove personals because they were a hotbed of sex workers or something?

And I will always, ALWAYS have such respect for Kris Kristofferson for supporting and comforting her after she was booed at the Dylan tribute.

Are there “Sinead Was Right" t-shirts? Because I feel like there should be "Sinead Was Right" t-shirts.

I say if spanking works so effectively we should keep it into adulthood. I find it awful hypocritical if a person spanks an adult without consent it is assault, but go ahead and do it to a defenseless child!

Oof, the discipline/punish distinction is so hard to communicate about. I’ve had so many conversations to the effect of:

So you’re fine giving your kid a negative label, but you bristle at having one applied to you? You might want to think about that one a bit.

A slideshow-listicle seems inappropriate for a topic like this.