I love the concept of being a team in life. Thanks for the advice!

Really good point, thank you.

I definitely respect that!

Well it sounds like whoever you end up with will be lucky to have such a thoughtful partner <3

Thank you for the insight, sounds like you and your husband are doing it right.

I can definitely see how it would become easy to take a relationship for granted and stop treating it as something that should be worked on and tended to. Thank you for the advice. :)

Damn troll. Thanks for sharing though. <3

“Don’t obsess about the inconsequential shit” - definitely something I’m working on. Thank you!!

Jez friends, I have a question: what makes people get divorced? I’m finally in a relationship that I think might be the real thing - I’m head over heels for this girl and already imagining what our wedding would be like. But suddenly I find myself obsessing over divorce. How do people go from being crazy in love to…

You are a brave soul, doing god’s work. Or firefighters’ work?

and now the entire Mexican restaurant I’m sitting in knows too because instead of reading the headline silently, i might have yelled it omgggggggggggg

Good to know, thanks!

I’M LATE. But has anyone every tried a light box for SAD? Would love to hear your experiences!

Lincoln is your must-see, definitely. But depending on the weather it’s a nice little walk from the WWII Memorial down to the Vietnam memorial and then you end up at Lincoln. The FDR Memorial is a neat little maze too, lots to see.

Do some of the DC memorials at night! I’ve done both day and night, but there’s something special about seeing them all illuminated, plus it’s a bit more peaceful.

Damn these seasons, have you thought about trying one of those light boxes? I am seriously considering one because I can feel the ugly thoughts creeping in already which is rude. So rude.

Tonight’s misery:

All the hugs and love and support to you. That she could come to you and that you could take action is huge, so consider it a step in the right direction. I was a couple years older than she is when my depression really started to take hold, and I just wanted someone to NOTICE and take me seriously. It’s a messy road…

RUTH BADER GINSBURG I’M SO EXCITED

You're in good company, friend.