OKAY SO I texted my mom who is a doctor about this issue.

Oh no. Oh nooooooo. No no no nooo.

Thank you. I have found happiness.

So here’s a thought, we live in a society that lets people own bears right? And ANYONE can get a bear easily and cheaply. I understand that some people can safely own bears, but keeping bears around kids and people who don’t know how to care for bears is a bad idea. However people keep saying that our violent bear…

I double flipped off my 12 year old yesterday behind his back.

I don’t think I’ve ever read the word “virile” so many times in one day, much less a few minutes.

I’m sorry - are you telling women they need to be more sensitive to expectations put on men, and their needs, on a post that’s literally about women being unfairly required to shoulder the burden of men’s needs, and their family’s needs, without reciprocation?

But part of the problem is that asking is part of the emotional work. Recognizing that it needs to be done, planning it, delegating tasks, all of that goes unseen.