When you're wrong, you're wrong. Please explain to me how having a fictional character become female, when said character changes bodies, is patronizing.

And some of us who are other women tell you to redefine your understanding of what's patronizing. This ain't it.

I think you're talking about Iron Fist. Though the later half of Luke Cage definitely started to drag.

Sure, just don't be sexist/racist/whatever and no one will judge you for it.

The only possibly explanation for your appaling grammar is that the small town you're from is outiside of the United States.