I just don't understand huge age discrepancies. I'm trying to date guys up to 10 years older than me, but I went on a date with a guy the other night and he was talking about his love of backstreet boys, and then I mentioned I was more into N'SYNC when I was in elementary school, and he was like yeah but this was…

Explain?

Hugo is an extreme narcissist. I bet it would eat him alive to see that this whole thing was written without a single mention of his name. I find it appropriate.

Jessica, I think you are going to get a lot of flack for this, but I think it was brave to post this. I don't think it was something that you had to comment on, but I'm glad you touched on it, and it does a very good job of explaining what it is like to put your professional neck out for someone and to have them…

Have you looked into income based repayment? If most of your loans are federal loans it might be a good idea.

So I'm starting a new job on Friday. Professionally I've been known by my full name, but I would like to go by my shortened nickname at my new workplace that my friends and family call me. Several people already know me by my full name there. Would it be weird to make it clear that I want to be addressed by the…

My mom has been with the same employer for 30 years. They treat her like garbage. I told her recently that I don't plan at staying where I am for more than two years, and she just doesn't understand. She thinks that I should just be happy having a job, and that I should never try to move up or switch careers.

This man robbed a bank, stabbed a lover repeatedly until he was almost dead, and sexually molested several children. He might not have done those murders, but he is certainly a very dangerous man.

I would actually probably call him closer to R&B too, but I definitely think his music is strongly soul influenced, and that is what Dodai was talking about so I ran with it. My problem isn't with the people who would be Miguel and Robin Thicke fans, my problem is all the people I know who would use Robin Thicke as…

Robin Thicke bugs me tremendously for this very reason. As soul singers go, I find him barely adequate. The only reason he gets the attention he does is because of the color of his skin.

I like cuddling, but I hate sleeping in a bed with another person. I just don't ever find it as restful. I guess it is okay on weekends when I can laze about bed, but when I have to be up at 5:45 in the morning for work? Hell no am I sleeping over at your place and hell no are you sleeping at my place.

Your family sounds really melodramatic.

If you've gone on a couple dates, and it seems like both people are into it, and then there is a sudden change of heart do you think there needs to be an explanation? Is it a shitty thing to do if you decide you aren't feeling it anymore to not text them back?

I have only been in NC for two years, but I've loved it. I love all that the triangle has to offer, the proximity to beaches and mountains, and the friendly people. This is not the state I decided to move down to though. It is actually terrifying how fast things are changing, and there is no hope until 2016 at the…

It is a man writing about another man. Fleshjacks are marketed towards gay men.

I would date this person. They are about my speed of crazy.

Yup. I've had a couple guys who were weary because they had never been with uncut before, but I've also had guys who were really into it. Although that is kind of weird in its own way too haha.

As a lover of cheap things and not having to leave the house, this makes me disproportionately happy.

Saying he has put more emphasis on poverty, income equality, and human trafficking than any world leader is not stating a fact, it is stating your opinion without giving any facts to back it up. Talking about unsafe working conditions does not qualify him a progressive unless this is 1890. I would HOPE he would be…

Then state some facts? Being slightly more progressive than Benedict doesn't make one "a progressive". Is Mitt Romney progressive because he has some more progressive views that Rick Santorum?