*shrug* I can't really get mad at that. Cheese is a guilty snack if you're watching your weight or cholesterol. Seems normal to me.

I think they're not supposed to distract from the clothes. So no flashing your beautiful smile or anything.

I was about to post the same thing.

Exactly.

As a black woman living in the Southern US, this really makes me sad and really uncomfortable. I suppose I have tricked myself into thinking that people are no longer that hateful towards minorities. Now I'm going to be giving the side-eye to everyone I come across.

Truth: asshole ex will always be an asshole but at least it's not my problem. Thank you. I've put all my effort into dancing and my body has never looked or felt better.

My goodness. You just hit the nail on the head with that comment.

You're right and I should know better. I'm trying soooo hard to at least act indifferently but I'm quietly seething with anger at his big smiling face every time he sees me. Like, you almost ruined my life and now you're asking how my day was?Ugh! I'll try harder though.

This advice is amazing because I really don't know why I give such a shit about someone like that. And somehow I doubt this mutual guy friend stood up for me. Fuck em both. And thank you for your great response.

I'd like to figure out how I can get over hating a recent ex-boyfriend.

I cannot believe the dog didn't rip that cat's head off. Some doggies are so sweet. Damn cats.

This is why I could never do NYC again. Lived there part-time during my childhood and then through my late teens to early 20s. Great city and I visit at least 3x a year. But I'm just not understanding how people justify the crazy shit they do just to live in the city.

I'm sorry you're going through this. I was once where you were and rejected the advice I am about to give because I wanted to see if I could change his mind but in hindsight, I see that it would have saved me lots of heartache.

I have no advice but your post and the Peggy gif was classic.

Thank you. Will look into finding a free or super cheap inspection. Also, love your name. So apt :)

I've reasoned that we almost always die alone. Marriages fail, spouses die, kids move away, friends forget about you. I'm seeing a family member who married young and had a very large family find herself all alone in her 80s after her husband died and her children all moved away or died themselves. Life is weird.

Thanks so much for your response. I looked at the Honda cert and it seemed pretty thorough. I'm glad you think the same. Fingers crossed.

I have a car buying question.

I read that tweet in a Bajan accent and cracked up. Doh mess with dem island girls!

"Here I am and I love you and that's that. no games...take it or leave it."