I'm sorry for your loss. Grief is emotionally exhausting and you have to get through it in the way that's best for you. Maybe it's best that you not allow yourself to really get into it until you're emotionally ready to deal with that grief.

Death sucks, yall. I mean, duh, of course it's a horrible thing but wow. I just lost someone I loved to a sudden heart attack and never had the chance to say goodbye. I feel like the shock is about to wear off and I will have a major meltdown.

Seriously. That shit is so tired.

Maybe I need intense therapy, but I think elevators are the devil. A tiny steel coffin devil. The one at work shook violently with me ONE TIME and I decided to take the stairs instead. Up 10 flights of stairs. Every day.

Seriously. All I wanted to do was dance my stress away that night.

This is my pet peeve. I just think it's so selfish to expect me to give up my night so I can hold your hair back as you puke all over me and then hold you up to help you walk home.

Thirties is def. too old for that mess. Especially at a grown-up club with older, more sophisticated people giving you the WTF look.

Aww. That was really sweet of him. But yeah, a decade later it can get a bit old.

For sure. The throwing up part is the worst!

Ugh. Last night I went out clubbing with 2 friends. We got dressed up, waited 45 min in line to get in (after paying $20) and then had to leave after less than an hour because one girl got extremely drunk. I mean, passing out drunk. What the fuck? I just wanted to dance but instead I had to play nurse to a grown ass…

I find this man's antics extremely tiresome. He knows damn well that bitch is not a term of endearment. He just chooses not to care. Or he wants to be daring . Or something.

I can believe that. I've always had the sense that Bajan had a different connotation.

Yeah. I'm West Indian too. I was just remarking that it was cool because I've barely ever heard anyone that wasn't West Indian use the word "bajan". That's all.

Props to Anna for writing Bajan, as opposed to Barbadian, with respect to Riri's accent.

He probably just doesn't give a fart. Nor should he. After all, he's a Prince, soon to be King, military trained, hero to drowning girl.

Good luck with that one.

I wish they would also lift their ban on polio vaccinations in Pakistan. But for some reason, I suspect none of this will actually happen. Sadly.

Prepare to burn hours and hours watching. The seasons just keep getting better. Every time I decide to watch 1 more episode before I turn in for the night, I end up watching till 3am.

Too true.

Yes. We truly need to talk this thing out. I also need to speak to lots of other people to see what their experiences have been when faced with this situation. Thanks for your response.