YOU GUYS I THREW SUCH A GOOD PARTY TONIGHT! I am in England, so my (English) boyfriend and I had a Thanksgiving + board games party tonight and invited over a bunch of people who were semi-strangers to each other. It went so well! We cooked delicious food and had so much fun drinking board games, and everyone drank…

Also, him saying he's "interested" in egalitarian marriage? Nope nope nope. You don't choose to be in an egalitarian marriage. It's not that different from what many people have as their marriage, where they have equal weight in decisions and treat each other with respect and understand each other's viewpoints and…

What do you do when one of your friends is really conservative?

THIS WAS MY FIRST RAP ON CASSETTE TAPE!

I am impatient and like pretty sparkly things.

Because grief comes in waves, and on a weird timeline. I don't think not having cried yet is at all strange.

Wooooooo CONGRATS!!!

I'm sorry for your loss. My grandma is a cool lady, too.

Honey, if he's making you feel dismissed and doesn't listen to your concerns, then he's never going to respect your views and you're going to become more and more miserable. That is a HUGE red flag.

I'm so sorry, sweetheart. Losing a furbaby is so painful.

I'm so sorry :( But don't feel bad for the way you reacted. Oftentimes vets are attached to our pets as well. Instead of being self-conscious, take comfort in the fact that you are not alone and your vet completely understands and sympathizes.

I'm so sorry about your family member. As for the vet, I wouldn't worry. I think vets must be the most compassionate people in the world. They always see us at our worst. They get it.

I am fuming right now. Crazy ex boyfriend "liked" that disgusting subway brawl video a couples of weeks ago so I deleted him. And now, I just got a message demanding why I deleted him, and when I explained, he said it was "awesome" and "she deserved it". I obviously blocked him, but now I just want EVERYONE to know…

I am so sorry for your loss. *sending e-hugs*

I got great news today! I got into the Master's of Special Education program I applied for. I start in January. It'll be new and exciting because I've never taken an education course or worked at a school before, I know it's something I want to do because I've been working with people with special needs for years, and…

My Grandma died yesterday morning, my Saturday, I am so very very sad but I still haven't cried and I don't know why. This is a photo of her about the time I was born, I was the first grandchild and always made to feel extra special because of it.

Have you thought about not talking to him for a while?

Yeah, he did that, too.

Was involved in a scandal that was splashed across the front page of the S.F. Chronicle, spiraled into full blown addiction, lost his job, his home, his friends, and eventually, lost his life via suicide...

Now that's how it's done