My dear friend lives in a historic apartment building in LA. Directly across from a 100 year old country club that has an annual firework show. She's on the 10th floor. We ate and drank and watched fireworks from all around the city. So cool.

the Hobby Lobby ruling came up and I cannot believe some of the shit he said

maybe I want a deeper connection beyond what I have now

Don't know if you have Netflix but I watched Less Than Zero the other day for the first time. So fucking good. Cinematography, lighting, costumes, etc. And because I had watched St Elmo's Fire the day before. Same year, but night and day in regards to quality film making.

Years ago I found a wooden silverware holder at a design store. Before that I used a plastic one. But I was so happy about a functional item that was also beautiful. Imma design / organization geek like that.

my neighbours, like several of them, think a summer Saturday evening is the perfect time to run their lawnmowers for a good hour

cut out drinking soda and booze

I love Dear Coquette (Dear Coke Talk).

put him in my phone as "DO NOT ANSWER".

I just can't take this guy seriously when he's getting so emotional…

The reality is just that men are so threatened by women, they just need another way to limit their freedom, choices, and autonomy.

IUDs carry some risk (my sister's migrated completely out of her uterus into her abdominal cavity)

And in general people typically would wait 6 months to a year to have a romantic partner meet children

Next time a dude is following you, you might want to go to a police station or fire station

Is there anything I can do to stop?

Aspire to a happy life rather than a photogenic one.

Thank you for this.

Like nobody explained to them that sex - bc - abortion = more kids..

if you're referring to an IUD, they're often effective for longer than our FDA has approved them for

My girlfriend and I use a condom every time. After a few years of dating, I think it's safe to assume we've had sex over 100 times, and she certainly hasn't gotten pregnant 18 times.