Yes, it’s absolutely victim blaming. If you keep going you’re going to find something to blame about the woman’s behavior and choices. Then, you say, “AH HA! Gotcha, well, if you hadn’t done x and y, then z wouldn’t have happened so it’s all your fault.”
Got an answer you didn’t like, huh?
Is it really that bad to note that it’s extra risky for a woman though? Like, it’s super important to talk with your daughter about that kind of thing before she goes off to college, but alright if it slips your mind when talking to your son. We’d all love it if this were a genderless utopia, but it’s still important…
You HOPED you were touching the third rail.
Teaching affirmative consent is not the same as encouraging women to never be cautious. Trust me, we all grow up knowing we have to take care to avoid rape.
The problem isn’t that those two things can’t be true at the same time. Everyone should always be careful and people should still not have sex with someone who is unable to consent. The problem people have with these types of comments is this...
I would really, really like to see comprehensive education on affirmative consent become part of sex education. (I would also like to see real sex education in all the states, instead of abstinence only education.)
But this is positive, this is a good start, at least. :)
Ninety-five percent of current and recent male students said sexual activity when one person is incapacitated or passed out is tantamount to sexual assault.
There can only be one dry shampoo to rule them all, and it is:
There can only be one dry shampoo to rule them all, and it is:
Respect for the creator of all things waka.
For real, cocoa powder (no sugar added) works wonders! Its brown, so no white patches left on dark hair, and - bonus - it smells like chocolate. Just make sure you give your head a good shake over the tub before leaving the house.
For real, cocoa powder (no sugar added) works wonders! Its brown, so no white patches left on dark hair, and - bonus…
“You owe me an orgasm”
and a barely effective aphrodisiac.
I hate dating and everything else in general. I decided to take the plunge and try online dating and I already want to jump off a cliff after two days.
It’s an upgrade from “Um”. Barely.
Thank god I’m gay, straight people are exhausting. I’m actually surprised you kids ever get it together.
Oh jeez. That stinks. As someone who still wears heels periodically, let me say that heels are insane. It is nuts that we wear them regularly, or even at all!