Dan Savage and his readers explored this important topic earlier this year. For further reading: http://www.thestranger.com/slog/2016/05/11/24076587/savage-love-letter-of-the-day-ive-looked-at-accidental-anal-from-both-sides-now

And this is why red states will stay red and why Republicans will continue to benefit from the electoral college. There are plenty of awesome cities out here in “flyover country” and they consistently vote Democratic. But too many liberals say, “Ew, the area surrounding that awesome city is dominated by Republicans.”…