Not saying there aren't other reasons, but it's daft to pretend this new information is absolutely in no way relevant. Also I'm compelled to note that the ferocity with which you're choosing to defend a child abusing pedophile is curious.

" Completely unrelated " ??? OK you must be from NAMBLA or some other pedophile advocacy group if really think that a fathers shoe size and the fact that a father is a convicted repeat offender pedophile have the potential to have equal damaging effect on a child's life ..Im done

Please shut the fuck up.

Hmmm... Convenient that he didn't want the boy, only the GIRL. I hope that baby girl is taken out of his custody IMMEDIATELY. This entire thing is SICK.

Indeed. If ever anyone deserved to be globally shamed and shunned by everyone on Earth for the rest of their lives, it's these two.

Where do you live? Most of the American guys I know are happily married to snarky American women.

We could just go with "white", it doesn't even matter what nationality he belongs to or where he's currently residing. Everytime I hear about absurd shit like this, it's always some white dude who's looking for "exotic", "submissive" foreign women who "know how to treat a man". Barf forever.

... and they kept the daughter. I'm going to be busy vomiting up my soul for the next few hours.

Sounds like you're a shitty tipper, and it is absolutely everybody in the party's business that an appropriate tip is left on a group check.

That was my thought too! He must spend a lot of time with his grandpa bc he sounds like such a sweet elder man. I can see him down at the corner store sipping coffee, playing peanuckle (spelling) with his guy friends and chatting about the storm that is apparently supposed to be coming.

the rule for bar tipping is $1 per drink. Not a dollar for drinks that cost $5.

I discreetly tip extra, too depending on who I'm with. Recently, I ate with a sweet group of senior ladies who ran the server's legs off. You know the type - the server came to ask us if we wanted dessert and only one lady ordered; the rest ignored him UNTIL he came back with her pie, whereupon several more ladies…

The dollar and the quarter are perfectly fine in that situation. I loved it when people paid and then just told me to keep the change, since throwing that in the bucket behind the bar meant I could move on and not worry about having to go back to that spot to grab the tip (large bar). One time, I had someone give me…

A similar thing happened to a friend of mine. She was incarcerated for methamphetamine possession. While incarcerated she got into a bad scrap and had to have dental surgery because her teeth were so rotten. Her correctional officer a Mr. Healy was a real jerk and wrote in her case that she had "meth mouth". She's…

You don't think romance belongs to our time? I think chivalry is dumb too, but romance can take many forms.

Maybe his parents should have a little consideration.

Why is it considered more "adult" to have more expensive possessions?

I still don't understand China though. No household I've ever been to has used their China even once. I'd much rather have a set of Target dinnerware than the nice China.

Do the Honeyfund. If she raises the issue again, end the discussion. It has been decided, and it's not up for debate. If she throws a fit, leave. Do not engage the psychosis.

WOW.