Ok that helps me get it on a whole different level.

It’s not a compliment. Black women are often insulted for their hair not being “good enough,” and “good hair” has come to mean white/biracial hair that isn’t too black/kinky/etc. Beyoncé isn’t saying this woman has nice, pretty hair. She’s saying that her ain’t shit husband can go crawl back to the white/light-skinned…

“Drama”

A woman writing about her experiences after having being cheated on and coming to terms with it after she sussed it out. The woman never names anyone and speaks as VAGUELY as possible talking mainly about her feelings.

“Not Drama”

A man writing in graphic detail the women he cheated with. Said man wins lots of…

I never have to be like “omg I’m sick of drama!” bc I stay in my damn lane. It's the easiest fucking solution

I also find it quite funny that some of those same women throwing her under the bus for incorporating her “drama” into her music are the same ones complaining that insulting a woman who most likely had an affair with a married man and subtly bragged about it on social media is misogynistic.

If Jay Z has had the extramarital affairs that Lemonade suggests, he’s a bad person! He’s done bad things! But the lyrics also allude to the cultural and generational scars that played a part in his infidelity. This is the story that plays out over and over again: a husband cheats, a woman still loves him, and they…

People aren’t light switches. They aren’t either on or off. Rachel Roy can do a shitty thing and still have positive attributes. What we’re criticizing here is her immature response to someone’s profoundly personal art—art that does not name Rachel Roy. I don’t know what you’ve been reading, but from my computer…

I mean you can. But I think it wouldn’t really be fair.

Is it drama if it’s Beyoncé singing about her life? She annon’d her. No one had to know or even know it was autobiographical but Roy is so thirsty she wants it known it’s her. That’s where the drama is.

See she brought this on herself smh bye girl ain’t nobody got time for your thirsty ass. I don’t understand why she would post that on Instagram smh