To be clear, BirdOPrey, a known troll, is saying he doesn’t think an accuser’s version should always be accepted. He basically always sides with rapists. I don’t know how he ever got ungreyed on this site. I wish someone would do something about that.

her 39-person bridal party

The false reporting rate for rape is about the same as it is for other felonies - roughly 2% to 8% - but you don’t see the same kind of “allegedly” language thrown about when someone says their TV got jacked.

Ed Westwick once stole my glasses at a party then forcibly “kissed” me as “payment.” I told him to fuck off and asked for my glasses back. Pretty sure homie was coked out of his mind and kept slipping the DJ (my boyfriend at the time) money to play “his requests.” DOUCHE.

That is the exact phrase uttered by the female white supremacist who was put away for terrorizing children at an African American birthday party. “This is not me”

Amen. And the fake non-apologies are driving me crazy. I just Jesse Jackson’s bullshit apology and now this.

This quote from Emily Dickinson has always rung true for me. “Behavior is what a man does, not what he thinks, feels, or believes.” 

It’s unfortunate that the Weinsteins exist. The Dustin Hoffmans of the world can easily say, well, I’m no Harvey Weinstein. That’s not enough.

Like, if they don’t actually think the words “what a fucking cunt” they are okay.

Engaged in that behavior multiple times, with multiple women, over a long period of time at that.

This whole “This is not who I am” thing put forward by so many of these creeps is making me blind with rage. By definition, if you engaged in this behavior, it IS WHO YOU FUCKING ARE!

It seems like so many men think that if they don’t have a burning, all-consuming hatred for women in the forefront of their conscious brains, that this automatically means that they respect women. Like, if they don’t actually think the words “what a fucking cunt” they are okay.

The first one? I’ve occasionally kicked off my shoes in the office when they were killing my feet and it didn’t impact anyone but me. I stayed in my office, took one trip down the hall to the supply closet, but that’s about it. No big deal.

Unless you’re a lifeguard, I can think of no work place where it’s appropriate to walk around barefoot.

I can’t believe you actually just said “lol”

As it happens I just watched the documentary by Amy Berg “An Open Secret” yesterday. Marty Weiss features as does Corey (although I think it was archive interview footage rather than directly participating in this documentary). The producers could never get distribution for the film. No one in Hollywood wanted to…

It seems like when people have a problem with “identity politics” they seem to believe in “trickle down social justice”. So, help the white straight guy and eventually everyone else will be helped, too. I think it works about as well as trickle down economics.

Hey! That’s not fair. I have the same reaction to things like that and I truly cannot help it. Got to pet a baby Siberian tiger in college = crying in every picture. Went snorkeling for the first time = cried into my mask. Saw a dolphin AND seals at the same time (in the wild)= cried and jumped up and down like I won…

Exactly. What is apparently wrong abouy her again? I swear, this place is slowly becoming a sentient Tumblr.

No one knows who she is. I believe the vast majority of these allegations, but I’m not about to believe one random twitter allegation.