I read the books first and that scene made a lot more sense in the show. So in the books, she is nervous on her wedding night, then decides to have consensual sex, then gets raped for months before deciding to take charge in her marriage? Raped to the point where she can barely ride her horse?

You sound angry. Did a rapist kick your dog or something?

I disagree. And, frankly, I'm a little disturbed by all of the apologia for that scene from book readers. If someone overpowers and pins you and initiates sex, and only then do you decide that you want to participate as something other than a victim, it's still rape. You had no say in whether or not the act was…

This is the scene verbatim from the books: