Someone wake me when all this Coachella bullshit is over, plz.

Ha! That’s right. Who’s in the driver’s seat? Choupette, le chat!

“Le Tigre. It’s a lot softer. It’s more of a catalog look.”

With only a few notable exceptions, I’ve always made more money than the men I’ve dated. None of them have had issues with me paying. Ever.

Also, when I was in my early twenties I dated a doctor who made what seemed like gazillions more than I did. I hated that he paid for most things until we had a conversation about…

Damn, the wife don’t love herself.

“...there’s nothing more emasculating than a woman pulling out her credit card. I don’t care how women’s lib we are.”

Okay, I laughed at “SEAL TEAM CIS”

Yeah, I think that it makes sense for the person who did the asking out to pay for the date.

Some women like when a man offers to pay for the first date, especially if he is the one who asked her out in the first place (Raises hand). I may or may not take him up on the offer but I do very much appreciate a sincere offer. I think it’s a kind gesture.

If someone ate and/or drank I think it is just good manners to show some “discomfort” when someone else picks up the bill. Unless someone made it clear that they are taking you out for your birthday or whatever.

Ehhhh, I usually give guys the benefit of the doubt on this one. The decent ones are still getting a ton of mixed messages from society about what is “right” to do on a first date. I’ve had guys seem uncomfortable because they believe that the you might have an expectation of him being a “good” date who pays for the…

Is gold digger a gender neutral term?

Isn’t that what she told John Mayer?

I give my husband a little pat on the tushy after I buy him something pretty. That way he knows I'm emasculating him.

Not offering to pay on the first few dates when starting to see someone is a good way to get dumped. Men don’t want a woman who expects he’ll pay for everything. In my experience, men insist on paying on the first date. I always offer to pay on the second date. 75% of the time they decline my offer and pay. But they…

Welcome to my former dating world where the guys had NO PROBLEM WHATSOEVER with the woman buying them dinner, drinks, plane tickets...;-). It’s a balancing act. There are certainly people who are a bit TOO comfortable being wined and dined by other people’s wallets. That’s not great either...

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It’s not a matter of ‘proving my independence’ or whatever. My BF makes way more money than me but I LOVE paying for fancy dinners with him & shopping sprees with my sisters sometimes. I’m finally at the stage where I’m not in crippling debt anymore, and there’s nothing more satisfying than treating people I love with…

I don't have an alcoholic ex but my husband has lately gone through his "mid-life crisis" phase, and it is killing me. We have three kids, and when I get a text at 8pm that "so-and-so co-worker is the devil" with no other explanation and he is usually home by 6 and it turns into 10pm and the excuse is we were out for…

When my wife was bald and in chemo, I'd have given anything to have to deal with random hair around the house. When she first started chemo, it fell out in giant clumps, leaving a halo of her naturally blonde hair on her pillow and wherever she sat. Eventually, she asked me to shave her head and that was when it all…