I don't think we disagree. You gotta do what you gotta do, but you can't rely on the same plan for all that time.

We patched it together after a while. But they still distrust me on a fundamental level, I think. I don't know that I will ever feel secure in telling them about my personal life that they will believe me fully.

No question it's viable. I'm just wondering if it's viable for the amount of time that she needs it to be viable for. The whole "I need 7 years to complete this plan" complicates matters quite a bit for me.

I married my girlfriend at the courthouse and tried to keep it a secret until I could scrape together enough money to have a good wedding and honeymoon. But my parents found out and we had a huge falling out.

Amen to that. The unstated truth to that call is this: Kids are better off with one loving parent than with one abusive and one loving parent.

I know that, but i also know people from Utah, and I live in a border state. It's bad, but I don't think it's "live a lie for 7 years" bad.

Yeah, but he disposes of regular old lying a couple paragraphs earlier. This seems like orders of magnitude different.

I could be wrong, but I don't remember ever hearing Dan give the advice he gives in the second P.S. - basically live as a straight couple for 7 years to avoid living with shitty parents. I'm not saying it's wrong, but it does seem underhanded.

Hey there, and welcome to your Savage Lovecast review for the week of February 14. I hope you all had a wonderful and/or tolerable Valentine’s Day. My wife is away on a business trip, so I’m an honorary single guy for this Valentine’s Day. So I had a slice of takeout pizza and I’m drinking a Four Peaks 8th Street…

Hey there, and welcome to your Savage Lovecast review for the week of February 8, 2017. You are looking live at me typing this from a backup computer. Sorry I couldn't interact with all of you beautiful sexy people last night and today. Let's get into it, better late than never.

Hey there. Computer problems have prevented me from writing up a Savage Lovecast review this week. Watch this space tomorrow - hopefully I can get the compy fixed.

The caller uses "probationary period" to mean "period of time that they can't meet each other in person."

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That deep-throating advice sounds reasonable to me! Especially since I bet (though I'm not a doctor) that repeatedly inflamed tonsils or inflamed mouth cavities can make you more likely for strep, which is what she was finally diagnosed with after months of throat pain.

It's certainly the most useful of the options taken by themselves.

No matter whose fault, I hope for the best for both of you. Hope you both find the grace to make this as good as possible for everyone.

Now you know how important this is.

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It's just as bad as when we get right-handed scissors.

"Hotwifing" is where the man in a relationship gets off about how attractive his partner is to other men and actively or passively engages in getting his partner to have sex with others.