I think what they meant to say was “it was never the intent of the GHSO to be insensitive or insulting to women. We just assumed that the ugly ones are so used to being the butt of the joke and that they’re so beaten down by this that they just don’t give a shit anymore.”

They want to keep it to dog whistle status, which gets the message out to people who understand what they want to say, but also preserves a level of plausible deniability for mainstream folks.

insincere forehead

that’s so perfect i rewrote this response about 10 times because i can’t

I don’t remember where I read it, but I suggested to a friend that her daughter give her bouquet to the couple at the wedding who had been married the longest. It was the sweetest! And they had the photographer capture the two couples, photo was included in the thank you note ~