You... you have a harem of ginger men? I like your style.

a delightful ginger man who has been added to my harem within the last year.

Someone should make "pompous atheist dyke" t-shirts though!

Yeah, I was diagnosed with stress. For two years. Until I went into full thyroid storm and almost died. Now my stress is called "Graves Disease".

From the Stroke.org website:

At one time, the majority of the information available for breast cancer pertained to MEN with breast cancer. How long did it take the medical community to realize that women's heart attacks don't present in the same "classic" way that men's heart attacks do. Same story all the time. The men are important, the…

I've had chronic pain all my life. Until recently, when I finally saw a geneticist, I didn't have any answers about what my pain is being caused by or how to treat it. But many times, it was suggested that my depression was causing my pain. That is absolutely infuriating, and it's happened to many women I know with…

I think it's pretty clear from my comment in the post (which is not "flippant" unless you want to dismiss the very real point I and women like me are trying to make) that doctors do this all the time. Especially to women. Sure, you can call it "malpractice" or whatever. But my point is this is the norm for a lot of…

As someone into BDSM, it is incredibly hard to find BDSM porn that has any kind of visible relationship between the participants. I so rarely see anything resembling aftercare or a dom checking in with the sub. And forget any talk of consent or limits. I've stopped looking at porn in general almost entirely because…

Is Florida even real? Or is it a Christopher Guest movie?

Dick magic. I'm both curious and intrigued. Is it a sling? Does it have buttons under the testicles like an infant's onesie? Do they have to be careful to shorten their gait so that it doesn't snap off? I have so many questions.

Anti-vaxxers, there is no curse in Elvish, Entish, or the tongues of men for this treachery. You morons are literally hurting giant portions of the human population that can't make choices for themselves. You selfish fucks can go off and believe bullshit all you want, but leave your kids out of this.

Oh, honey...you have no idea the evils middle aged women can do. And we LIKE it.

Can we please shake this idea that's suddenly floating around that mental illness automatically means you're not responsible for your actions? There's a very small set of non-lucid mentally ill people who are truly not responsible for making the choice of whether or not to be violent. If you're capable of making the…

Or the close second: "Why don't you forsake your religious beliefs because of this thing that was brought to my attention in the article! There must be absolutely nothing redeeming about your faith."

I guess it is a step. And I'm in Arizona, where the LDS voting bloc is a force with which to be reckoned. I get that conservative groups feel like liberalism is being shoved down their throats. From my perspective, religious conservatism is being shoved down my throat.

I do this. It's because my day job is so soul-sucking I have to artificially extend my free time hours to feel as though my life is not an empty pit of drudgery.

A smaller secondary point to the one you raised: I also found this really reductive and insulting to men who are married, have children and are not abusive monsters. The implication that the only reason they're caring and loving spouses and fathers is because of a government contract is pretty gross.

I used to work at a crisis center for people who experienced domestic violence and we received ~28,000 calls per year. It wasn't even a big city. But I guess those 28,000 calls must have all been unwed whores who were asking for it or something. Now we have to hide behind a man in order to be protected from violence,…

I know we're supposed to dislike Zach Braff but if he was on grindr I would climb him like a koala on a eucalyptus tree. Slow, lazy and with little energy, but quite enjoying myself.