Thank you for this! I’m planning on cohabiting with the BF in the spring and I’ve been looking for a “how to not kill each other” guide and this will definitely suffice. Many thanks!

yeah “shitty luck” that a black man has the common sense to NOT call the cops 1) because of a deeply ingrained cultural aversion to getting others in trouble with the law (aka snitching) 2) because of a deeply ingrained cultural distrust of the police and 3) because of the common sense that no police officer will…

Lauren Nostro works for Complex and all the other writers on Twitter who are friends with her (or work for her) have been bitter towards Ernest Baker for his success, I see it on Twitter everyday. The same complex/noisey/etc. writers circle jerking each other. I’ve seen plenty of bitter subliminal tweets towards him.…

Depending on how you define “city,” you can have your cake and eat it too.

In light of the topic of this article, here are some resources for anyone who needs help:

This is. By far. The most personally beneficial Gawker Media article I have ever read. Well done sir.

My only problem with this piece is I KNOW all of this and yet still sometimes fall into the bad habits. It’s easier now that I am older, but I still slip.

What if I want something else? To get me through this, semi-charmed kinda life?

This might be the best Adequate Man in a very long time, Shitehawk.

Idiot.

This is a fantastic sentence. Maybe even life-changing after 21 years together.