I’m sorry to hear that. :( I hope things work out for you.

from the NYPost article: “Chokal-Ingam says he’s revealing his race ruse now because he heard that UCLA is considering strengthening its affirmative-action admissions policies. He says it’s a myth that affirmative action benefits the underprivileged.” Nice, right?

Yeah, but in every application I have ever done for anything, my race was just a box to check. They don’t cross reference that with US census data. He claims to used all his standard documentation during his application. None of that would indicate race and if he put his middle name as his preferred name, they would…

He definitely realized that, hence pretending to be black instead of being Indian.

His bits on TDS were not only few in number, but also fucking terrible and boring.

oh my dude, so many (i would bet included some of the men you know who are lying about this)!!! i mean, speaking only for myself - sometimes you're duped. guys will say, "oh yeah i love going down on women, i'm great at it! i do it with gusto!", and then either they do go down and are so meh that you just give up the…

I get a new one because I have a right to have an orgasm. If he can't deal with the "pressure," he needs therapy, not to use my body without having the ability and willingness to get me off. It's not rocket science. It's actually not that difficult. You just need to give a damn. If you don't, you're history. And if…

I like that, here, you're asserting that reciprocity doesn't have to be "direct" or as my husband calls it "tit for tat."

For example, I love giving BJs, and I tend to give a lot more BJs than I receive cunni. But, my husband is great at other sexual techniques that I enjoy, that pleasure me, and since I don't really…

I don't get that impression. She wants to be eaten out, this dude wants to eat her out, end of story. Like, if she told the dude "Eat me out and then I'll blow you" and then didn't, she'd be a kind of shitty person, but that's not at work here.

No, because, once again, going down on a woman and giving a man a blow job are not the same thing. Both in that one is necessary for climax, and also because going down on women is a lot easier to do. I say that as a woman that's done them both.

why? what if it's his fantasy for her to sit on his face? should she deny him his fantasy?

That IS a better example. But, using that, why is that person a douchebag? They get off from pissing on you. They do not get off from you pissing on them. If both people agree that that works, and everyone agrees that person A gets to piss on person B but B doesn't get to piss on A, then why does it matter that it…

Not only have I been refused before but guys my age refuse to do anything that feels good for me. As in refusing to do things that give me the tiniest bit of pleasure. I was just a toy to them and I was assaulted as a result. Pleasure is only one component of this discussion.

How so? I wouldn't want to be involved in a relationship with someone who refused to reciprocate in the oral sex department but if someone else did, i mean, more power to them. I have been with people who'd much rather give than receive.

Right? 'Oh no guys! I looked at the world's blowjob inventory and there are missing blowjobs! We counted them all! A few are missing. Why isn't this cat lady coming up with the missing blowjobs?!"

Because I am completely obsessed with r/Relationships, I read this one. The fakey's are always the best. A good recent fake was a guy who lived with his wife and 3 kids in a trailor, below the poverty line, on foodstamps, and she spent the entire $10,000 tax return on a trip for him and her to a cosplay convention and…

Arabic, Persian, who cares, emirite?

Ask her if she loves you. If she says yes, ask her again. If she says yes again, leave. She doesn't love you and will break your heart.