She said it was impossible to look at them and think negatively about them, not that it was impossible to look at them and not be attracted to them, so I’m not sure what you’re getting at here?

She looks 11.

I find it hilarious that they’re all up in arms about not being able to trust him now that he released this video. Like, we can’t trust the guy who released a video of his friend confessing to cheating, but we can totally trust the guy who cheats on a woman he’s about to vow to love and honor for the rest of his life.

Ok, sure, it's a lot of hair.

I never got that mentality... if you’re only interested in the exciting visuals, why see a movie at all? You could just wait until someone uploads all the fight scenes and watch them on Youtube. If I’m actually going to go watch a film I’d like for the story to at least not be so bad that it distracts me from enjoying…

What? I’ve seen pecs that are bigger than some women’s breasts. And what about women with flat chests? Are you actually positing that they might be better players because they’re lacking in mammary tissue? So all those skinny tennis players out there are losing to Serena’s fuller chest because...?

“Because he seems like such a good dude otherwise.”

“They have to go through a lot of different things that we don’t have to go through. You know, the hormones and different stuff, we don’t need to go into details. Ladies know what I’m talking about,” he said.

http://www.nytimes.com/2003/07/06/art…

My greatest regret in life is not being Rihanna.

I see that, too. We seem to be willingly moving toward a new kind of segregation - if you aren’t my specific ethnicity/sex/sexual preference/marital status/political beliefs/education level/etc., then you have no right to read/sing/write/talk/express opinions about me. That seems terribly insular to me.

I think this is a serious problem with social justice as a whole right now. It’s become really self-destructive for the people engaging in it, and destructive for people outside of it when we see them as not behaving in ways/holding opinions we think they should for their assumed “privilege” level. I mean, it…

“Be ashamed to die until you have won some victory for humanity.”

Many years ago, and I mean like more than two decades ago, I read an advice column where a father had written in to say that he was bouncing his young daughter on his knee and got an erection. He wrote that he immediately put her down and was horrified, ashamed and afraid. I never forgot it. I think it can be normal…

I’m so sorry. I want to give you a hug right now.

I can, distressingly, say yes, this happens. It might just be looks or in my case, a one-time comment about wanting to see my boobs that we've both put behind us but IS NEVER FORGOTTEN. or it might be a disgusting fucker like the guy in this story. But it definitely fucking happens, to/by people in seemingly normal…

Exactly. I don’t care so much about the catcalling itself (although I could live without it), but about the inherent threat. And that’s something he’ll never understand. I encourage every one who doesn’t get that to watch the episode ‘Ladies and Gentlemen’ of Aziz Ansari’s Master of None.

Exactly. The double standard thing is such a strawman. Firstly, men don’t get routinely catcalled so that they must change their route to and from work, worry about what they’re wearing, and are nervous to walk past men on the street. Secondly, there are no women advocating the catcalling of men and telling men it’s a…

That’s not a double standard, unless people that are against catcalling are fine with it when women do it. When have you ever heard people standing up for the [largely imaginary] women that catcall? This is what’s known in the biz as a “strawman argument.”

“Wait, why isn’t my side supporting me anymore? Why won’t they believe me when the evid—ohhhhhhhh.”