Follow your gut. I moved from the East coast to the Midwest two years ago for my husband's job and it's been terrible for my career. And guess what? Our divorce was just finalized. He's one of those men that isn't sure about anything, now he's not sure about me. If I had to do it over, I would have never comprimised…

Don't be embarrassed. Your friends and family want you to be happy and well, and in a relationship where your needs, your career, and your time are respected. I would be concerned that, right now, that is not what is going on.

No advice, but I moved to another state with no family or friends close to be near the boyfriend many moons ago. We broke up, but I loved the new city. Ended up staying and meeting my husband of eleven years in that city. Don't worry about where you live. Worry about who you spend time around. Good luck!

I'm sorry you're in such a precarious place right now but I give you major props for taking a huge risk for love, even if it doesn't work out. It took a lot of bravery on your part. I'm also having tough relationship issues so I'm just here to show empathy. Here's a few puppies!

You probably won't like my advice but here goes: You should never, ever move and put your career at risk for some man that you aren't married to. You've made ALL the sacrifices here and he's made zero! He won't even drive to you two hours away.

Here's a flying puppy!

It's not going to change if I just move and he's not in this 100% - it's just giong to breed resentment.

I'm a lot older than you are (sigh) and I've been through a lot of breakups in my time before I settled down with my husband. My advice to you is the advice I would have given myself so many times but didn't have the experience to know at the time I was going through all those breakups:

I can't give you any advice, but here's a cute funny picture for you!

I'm going to tell you a story, that I hope cheers you up. Once upon a time I followed a guy too, but halfway across Europe, to the south of France. It was all pretty great and stuff, although there were clear signs that we weren't right for each other. I left my safety net of actually being a professional with a…

I don't have puppy gifs, but I will offer hugs *hugs* My husband and I went through a tough time a few years ago. He told me he didn't love me any more, wasn't in love and wanted some time. I happened to be in a different country at the time, so I just stayed away and gave him his time. I wanted time to myself, too.…

I want this relationship to work out so bad, and I've already moved 3000 miles to make it work, I love him so much, and I'm so scared this is the end. On top of everything, it will just be so embarrassing - I recently introduced him to my extended family and everyone knows I moved for him. If he breaks up with me,…

are you happy with the new (current) job? do you like your new city? what about staying there for a bit, start to mend fences at the old job if you think you want to eventually move back east and just enjoy your new life? one day he will wake up and realize how awesome you really are. (and then YOU decide if you want…

As someone who moved across the country to be with someone who wasn't 100% invested like I was, I feel your pain. It is a shitty, shitty thing to be so completely invested in something that you uproot your whole life for it only to find that the other person just simply doesn't care as much as you do.

Yes, yes, yes. Mocena said it more forcefully than I did, but the best, the ONLY thing you can do with a guy who says he needs space is give it to him. Give it to him good, girl. You HAVE to move on. If you can't bring yourself to donate that gift to the Salvation Army, put it in a closet. Do not give it to him…

I'm sorry things didn't work out, but I admire your hussle. I have a feeling that no matter what, you will land on your feet.

Rejoice, honey! He is not for you. Sure it hurts, but you won't hurt forever. This will pass. Stop resisting the pain and give into it for a week or so, really hard. Then move on. People who love each other will "balance each other into" each other's lives. Will make time, will do the work. Simple as that. You are not…

Thanks! I mean, I just don't know, I really want to be with him - I didn't really represent any of the good stuff about our relationship and there's a whole lot of it! So, to clarify, this isn't like a "seeing other people" break, we're just taking a little time off from seeing eachother and talking every day while we…

Thanks - I think it's nice to hear that validated, he's such a good guy in so many ways it's just hard to recognize that he doesn't treat me right with committment.