Remember that my really close friend who is gay was cited for “Lesbian Bed Death” that’s not me at all nor is it reflective of male/female gender dynamics. My three friends, all divorced now, who cut their husbands off for 5-10 years- they appeared to either need a shoulder to cry on or were hitting on me (am married,…

There’s another aspect to this- was Bowie himself groomed and molested by his early management team, who were all gay, and Bowie who was... bisexual during the 1960s, early 70s, but then straight from a certain point onward. What was Bowie’s experience, really, with sex as a teen?

Again, let’s step back, the whole point of Foxes was how messed up they all were and how Jodie Foster’s character was trying to get them on track. Annie is on the one-way track to an early death. The girl who got married (to Randy Quaid?) was considered kind of weird but TRYING to be normal. I recall my parents at the…

Same thing happened to me almost ten years ago with Prince. Was working with interns and someone asked who was on the radio, I looked at them and said it was Prince, and they asked if he was a Hip Hop artist or not because they couldn’t understand why the music sounded the way it did. Not only had they never heard of…

Let’s step back a second. I know groupies and groupies knew all about “Dirty Old Men.” The vocabulary for a predator was a “Dirty Old Man” who was outside the scene, too old, but still a creep. What they lacked was a good understanding of a lothario within their ranks.
But I know groupies in LA who found some of the…

Honestly it really wasn’t. I know many teenage girls at the time who were very happy to be rid of “Victorian morality,” corsets, chastity belts and similar. these changes allowed women in college to sleep with two different men without being called “whores” or being expected to marry one of the men. These allowed…

Here’s my genuinely honest question. Do women actually want to have sex?

Because you talk about implicit duress, formative coercion, and the way “women have consented throughout history.”
My honest question is- do women actually want to have sex?
I have an extremely close relative who is a lesbian. Her girlfriend who was…

I had two older friends who were girls in the mid-1970s. They talked over and over about losing their virginity and how they weren’t going to be tied to a Victorian Moral Code. Today is a DIFFERENT WORLD than it was in the mid-70s, let alone, Early 1970s. Back then losing your virginity was like thumbing your nose at…

Sometimes it feels like disliking something, such as my annoyance at Will Smith’s bad acting in “Concussion” seems to be read by others as racism. I’m somewhat making fun of that.
Yes, you’re going to find trolls and the wives of cops going off on Beyonce on twitter, but twitter has long exposed the weirdos who…

I thought the song completely sucked, but I’ve only worked in radio for 8 years and worked in music for 25, what do I know?

You know that you don’t NEED to read what trolls write