Well, usually I could see where you're coming from, except that hate speech is a thing so being mean to someone verbally does have repercussions, but mainly, in this case, she paid money and the person job was to get her food and customer service is a thing, so in this case, I do think it was really awful and totally…

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"Quit being a douche." That was a direct quote from your post to me when I said nothing to you, stop being a hypocrite and so incredibly ridiculous. Get over yourself. The times I have called people things like douchenugget was after I had been called several names and sworn at, so perhaps freshen up on those reading…

Ohman, its actually quite an honor to be singled out for not taking heteronormative, homophobic, sexist bullshit and being "too P.C." which really just means considerate and not contributing to the erasure of marginalized identities.. Man, I must be doing something right :)

I mean, that was more of a general statement, but okay. Yes, people get judged on their opinions, as they should. And yes opinions can be sexist, racist, ableist, homophobic and transphobic. These are just facts so I'm a little confused at your anger and claims of hypocrisy, especially since I think you misread my…

Okay great, do you want a cookie for not being offended? I'm gay and non-binary and I was offended. You are actively dismissing what people are saying and their right to be offended, and you should probably stop and not be such a self righteous douchenugget and stop trying to appease straight people. She wouldn't have…

Dude, the struggle is real. The number of places I don't go to because of really, truly awful service is kind of depressing, however it has saved me a lot of money on would-be tips. Also...you should definitely convince your friend to start that business because I will use that service anytime I go to a restaurant or…

So despite how forward my comments here may seem, my general awkwardness and anxiety of people IRL keeps me at a very low confrontation level so most times my involvement stops at low tip, but if I think a service is especially awful, yes I have spoken with managers and such. I'm not sure if my internet rage makes it…

Right, but my point is that I shouldn't have to be the one to correct ageist, racist beliefs. It is not my job to be SuperNegro: Dispeller of all Ignorant Stereotypes and Prejudices. They should be doing their job, which includes quality service. Also, I have learned that no matter how great my behavior is in any…

Right, but I just don't see the point in tipping up because it is not my duty to change a server's attitude or how they do their work and that seems a lot like justifying their poor behavior/service. Like, I guess I liken it to any other profession. If I hire someone to paint my house and they do a subpar job and I…

Not entirely true. "If an employee's tips combined with the employer's direct wages of at least $2.13 an hour do not equal the federal minimum hourly wage, the employer must make up the difference." -http://www.dol.gov/elaws/faq/esa/… List of min wage per state http://www.ncsl.org/research/labor…

No, because see, if you have to erase someone's race, possibly their heritage and ethnicity to see them as equal, you're doing it wrong. The "colorblind" theory is this weird new-age racism that people use when they're just really really secretly racist but they know its not trendy to want to lynch people anymore.

Where is the line for you between objectifying women and celebrating one's own sexuality?

Okay, that's not actually true, but let's assume it is, that doesn't mean that you have to waste energy defending someone's right to say you should be killed/are worth nothing. Get outta here with that free speech nonsense, content is censored everyday in every form of media.

What?

Perhaps you're not the best person for this question, but assuming that dating prospects is a great concern for transmen for the reasons you've listed, isn't it almost worse to date a self-identified lesbian? Especially if you are a transman who is not on hormones/haven't had any type of surgery so you assumingly read…

"I'm black and have fought for KKK members rights too free speech." What type of nonsense did I just read? You actually wasted your time fighting for the rights of KKK members to basically tell you that you are worth less than dirt and should either go back to Africa or be killed instead of fighting for the rights of…

Thank you.

Ohh, you want me to get raped. Because that's the type of upstanding guy you are. And this, ladies and gentlemen, is what a Men's Right's Activist looks like. One minute, they'll sit back, self-righteously of course, talking about all of those silly women and their silly issues and their inability to take sexual…