I do get it, I think its bogus and I'm calling it out. You can't have it both ways; either you get to be famous by trading on your trans-ness, or you get to have people not get up in your business about your trans-ness.

False. I am saying people who cultivate a public persona based on a very specific and highly unusual personal trait don't get to complain when people get up in their grill about that trait.

If you make a name for yourself by trading on something that has to do very specifically with your genitals, then you lose any claim to privacy about your genitals. If you don't trade on that, then its nobody's business. Trans, by definition, is about genitals — not entirely, but largely and significantly. If that…

Actually what I said — twice now — is that its pretty low-class to do that.

It means "low class" so kind of the same thing. Actually, a little bit meaner.

So if you read my first comment, you'll note that I also said it was rude.

I'm not entitled to it, but I can ask. If they don't want to answer they don't have to, but they also shouldn't pretend to be surprised when people are curious.

If the person I'm talking to is going on TV talking about living his life as an example of a man with erectile dysfunction then yes, I think its fair game.

Depends on the context. If someone put themselves out in public as a spokesperson for [extremely unusual situation], I think its reasonable that people would have questions about [extremely unusual situation]. If you don't want to be the object of intense curiosity, don't tell everyone that you are [extremely…

Google is not a substitute for having a conversation with a real person in the real world.

Probably a little declasse to talk about on a TV show, but for christ's sake its a really unusual thing to do, and people are doing to be curious about the particulars of it. If you don't want to deal with people's intense curiosity, don't put yourself out there as a public spokesperson for that very unusual thing…

I've been plugging Elba for Bond for a while now. He is the perfect combination of smooth, dangerous, and efficient.

A $10 cotes du rhone is my house wine. Or a malbec if I can't find one.

Oh god, she told me the story 20 years ago I can't remember it much. But, this happened to her (vaginismus) and it was a while before the poor fella got unstuck. Suffice it to say, it was not a good "first time" experience for them.

Yes, and yes apparently.

Happened to a friend of mine the first time she had sex. *womp womp*

Its not going to happen!

Chin ups are with your palms facing you. Pull ups are with your hands facing away.

Chin ups are easier by far, for almost everyone. I can do chin ups (or could, when I was fit). I don't think I've ever been able to do a single pull up even at my peak.

Are you talking about chin-ups, or pull-ups?