I’d much rather be told I’m intelligent, insightful, kind, and compassionate than pretty (although being told that does boost my confidence, I won’t lie.) I hope I teach my child that even though society does place a (sometimes high) value on looks, there are more important qualities to value in yourself and in other…

That’s largely been my experience since I hit mid twenties and beyond. I don’t get off every single time, but most of the time - and no complaints here. I always have a great time or I wouldn’t be doing it. :)

But thanks for telling me how I must feel about something. Seriously, how would I have survived without that? You must be a mind reader.

Because that’s what she did. I don’t think it’s shameful to phrase it that way, either. If I was as confident as she is, I may do it too.

I admire her for taking a stand on women and our right to enjoy our sexuality, but telling viewers how she rose to fame is part of the story - just like acknowledging the only reason the Kardashians became a household name is because Kim spread her legs on camera (not that I have a problem with her making a sex tape…

Yes, different cultures have different standards...and a perfect world, the conference would have offered free childcare to attendees.

I’m sorry to disappoint you but, I’ll never think it’s ok to just assume your child is welcome at a professional conference nor will I ever change my views thinking it’s inappropriate to take your baby to a 5-star adults only restaurant nor a midnight movie, nor a bar on Bourbon Street. If you think that makes me…

Oh yes, because I can’t have any view that disagrees with your version of feminism without it being because some man told me to think that way. #blessyourlittlestupidheart

You disagree with common courtesy?

A.) That’s an incorrect usage of a word, but you obviously don’t care so whatever. B.) It’s not that it’s too stressful. I just believe one can better themselves without being entitled. Assuming an all women’s conference will cater to you just because you decided you wanted to be a mother is entitled. She could have…

I think you mean either offended or defensive, neither of which I am.

I’ll be exactly the same way. Why? Because having a child means sacrificing certain things. Along with possibly giving up last minute professional functions if I can’t find proper childcare arrangements, I may also have to give up concerts or last minute after hour drinks full of networking opportunities, lunch with…

The point is the author without permission of the organizers (by her actions) is telling the other attendees babies are welcome. One may very well not cause a huge disturbance but what happens when next year 100 babies are there being disruptive because “there was a kid last year so it’s ok.” Events are not required…

Aw, sweetie - please don’t reproduce. I will pay for your birth control. Not only are you incapable of reading comprehension, you are sure to pass that entitlement attitude to your kids. Do us all a favor and just say no.

It’s not about handling 20-40 seconds of distraction, it’s about so many mothers thinking they are entitled to bring their “perfect” kids whever they chose without consideration to others. Kids are kids. You can’t expect them to reasonable sit still without getting fussy or restless for 12 hours straight. Is one a…

No - it’s about understanding actions have reactions. My CHOICE to have a baby shouldn’t make me entitled to bring the baby wherever I chose. I understand this choice will come with consquences like having to occasionally turn down amazing career opportunities such as last minute invites to attend or speak at industry…

I HIGHLY doubt there is no time at which this woman doesn’t leave her child for more than 3 hours at a time. Even if there is, that’s her choice. Not everywhere is kid friendly. I am an expectant mother with a full time career at I can’t (nor would I want to give up). My choice to have this baby means my career life…

At no point should a woman in a professional setting assume kids are welcome, which it sounds like the author did. Unless someone specifically says “kids welcome” they aren’t. If you’re in a bind (she wasn’t) ask. If the answer is no, gracefully decline the invitation. The other professional will understand.

Because as is obviously in this piece, many mothers are completely in denial (or worse don’t care) about the level of said noise. The author herself goes from describing a peep to a wail. And a cough from an adult is rarely the same level of distraction as screaming from an infant.

She can pump or she could have gone to the part of the conference she was speaking and then gone home. Every choice has a consquence (good or bad).