Some of my current faves:

So this guy is actually my first fuck buddy ever so I'll try to answer your questions the best I can.

-If it fits into my plans, I call up my fuck buddy because for me, nothing melts my insecurities away or is more life affirming than having someone admire my nakedness and make me come again and again.

Ahh I forgot "Hallelujah." That's a great one!

Gahhh Coldplay "Fix You" gets me every time and I don't even like Coldplay.

That is so super adorable!

I LOVE THAT IDEA. It actually makes a lot of sense, too- when people get married, they're forming a new family with their husband/wife, why not choose a new last name to symbolize that? It also takes a lot of the tension out of the whole thing too.

Aww I love the mesh-back (or all mesh) undies. They make me feel sexy.

"skin tags on your vulva."

I am so sorry that you had to experience that. The fashion industry can be so fun but it is awful in so many ways.

I have no idea what's wrong with me but I've been feeling so lonely lately.

The exploitation is shitty and gross. Every bit as awful as the "post your bra color" one. Also, this is a fucking stupid idea because like, going braless when you have big boobs? SO uncomfortable.

I second Scanpan. OBSESSED.

I had some great sex on Thursday night w/ my fuck buddy. I had 4 orgasms within the span of an hour which is a pretty big accomplishment for me and then he even stayed and held me longer than normal. Gonna call him up again for more later this week. :)

There's a number of episodes of House that deal with death but I think that "Wilson's Heart" and "Simple Explanation" are pretty good.

That's a great idea! This first time it happened was totally in the moment and I can't really explain it but if it's something I want going forward, I will definitely have a safeword and I'd been considering a safe gesture as well.

Yeah, makes sense and I definitely appreciate the concern! :)

Yeah definitely and I totally see how like actual choking where your airway is obstructed is REALLY SUPER DANGEROUS and that is still an absolute "no, never going to happen" for me. I definitely should have clarified what I meant when I said choking.

Oh, absolutely. I would never get more extreme with it than what happened the other night (which was really just a hand on my throat and the tiniest bit of pressure- I was in absolutely no pain and could still breathe normally) and definitely will not do it with anyone I don't trust 200%.

The safety thing definitely occurred to me. To be completely fair, it's not like I had him choke me till I was gasping for air or anything like that... more of just his hand on my throat with a gentle pressure. I had absolutely no trouble breathing and wasn't in pain or anything like that.