Not related to Grey Gardens but the Castro theater is pretty fantastic.

Oh totally. My fuck buddy was actually really great about it- he was game (although definitely surprised) for it but he totally let me be in control of the situation. I am into other things that require lots of communication- like spanking- so I'm definitely no stranger to communicating about boundaries and when…

That does sound super hot! Both of those things actually.

Sex is SO weird! But awesome. :)

Totally. It's the first time that I've been surprised by my sexual interests so it was just a weird moment of like, what-the-fuck-am-I-doing-this-isn't-something-I-like combined with oh-god-this-is-so-hot-don't-stop.

It's soooo good, especially for the price. I also recommend Woodford Reserve. It's pretty similar IMO but a little smoother (also a few $$ more but definitely worth it).

Has anyone ever done/tried something they were absolutely, 100% against during sex and ended up loving it?

I was in Banana Republic and they had some CUTE stuff recently. I haven't really been a fan in the past but this season I want so many things.

I don't have one, but I've heard that a lot of women need some kind of barrier (towel, panties, etc) between the wand and their vag. Maybe try that?

I've actually done A LOT (too much?) to treat myself this year:

The logo IS adorable. Like, I want that owl on a set of pillows or a mug or something!

Honestly, I've met most of my post-college friends through work. I was lucky though- I work in the SF start-up scene so it was a very young company (average employee age was probably like 28-30ish).

I swear by Aveda lipsticks. They have a really nice minty scent/flavor (none of that weird artificial lipstick-y taste) and stay on really well.

My faves:

That's really shitty. Like some other commenters have mentioned, set the record straight with the contacts you want to keep and word will get out.

Another vote for Dr. Bronner's. The almond one. Makes my skin so soft and it's really gentle and makes you smell like a delicious almond dessert. Also it suds really well.