no, I was thinking about how do you clean up the dust you produce as you go. :)

Cleaning is a bit of a sticking point between me and my SO. Things like dusting, vacuuming, cleaning the windows, cleaning up the dust moose the cat produces, etc. are really the types of maintenance chores that don’t work in the “pick up…

Would you also end the relationship if your partner did something else that broke your trust? I’ll relate that my SO did something early on in our relationship that temporarily broke my emotional trust. The trust was rebuilt, and we both learned something about ourselves and the other. I’m glad I didn’t bolt.

neither do I, but that’s not what the post I was responding to was talking about. The post is clearly about someone who always cheats, and always will. Exploring nonmonogamy allows someone who isn’t suited to monogamy to not be a cheater.

No words explicitly separate your paragraphs in your post. You’re making stuff up (again). And back to the silly idea that paragraphs in a composition have nothing to do with one another. Don’t you tire yourself out making all these silly arguments up because you are butt hurt that someone criticized your weak…

It’s usually more about being scared by the thing you want and you are getting really close to having it or it’s already there, so you sabotage it. It’s pretty common.

what are you talking about? I linked to two paragraphs you wrote in one post. Which are absolutely related to one another. Which you later tried to say I linked to out of order.

Have you gone off your some medication recently?

I get it. People sabotaging their relationship because it gets too serious is pretty common. Just surprised it took four years. Unless they started dating in college. Then I get getting freaked out at year four.

what about dusting?

Why don’t you admit that monogamy isn’t for you and only enter in to non-mongamous relationships?

But my point is that we often don’t know the full story. It’s sort of like atheists. So many people don’t think they know that many, but that’s just because lots of nonbelievers aren’t particularly vocal in proclaiming their lack of belief. So people will just assume they are believers.

Of course I’ve shown you. Repeatedly. I’m not sure what you mean by not in the right order. Click on the links. It’s one post. One paragraph right after the other. In your own post. Unless you’d like to argue there was another Matt.

doesn’t matter that point one is in response to someone else. You shared an opinion about American’s being more racist. You then supported that opinion in the following paragraph with your view that recordings show abnormally high incidences of American’s saying racist shit. Those are, by definition, related…

Well, that’s really based on what you know. You don’t know about the person you don’t know cheated on the last SO, so your perception of him/her isn’t of a cheater.

That being said, I’ve known some folks were cheaters when they were young and didn’t take their relationships seriously, who have gone on to not cheat. But…

Of course they don’t NECESSARILY need to be related to one another. Yours however are.

I suspect you might know a lot of folks in relationships where one person cheated, and they stayed together and didn’t cheat again. Those folks just might not be sharing you every detail of their personal lives.

you seem to like pretending that paragraphs in a composition aren’t related to one another. Why is that?

I already showed you where your two central ideas in those paragraphs relate to one another. Don’t be dense. Maybe you just be more careful when you write, or accept that sometimes your communication completely sucks if you meant to communicate something else. (I think you communicated what you meant to. It was just…

I know you think (or are pretending to think) you made two separate and unrelated statements, but that’s not actually how paragraphs work. Paragraphs are a string of sentences around a central idea. Where you got the idea that you can try to argue your way out of paragraph two supporting paragraph one, which all…

I’ve shown you multiple times. Right here:

I had my worst roommate in my late 30s. (NYC, where if you aren’t partnered or rich, you might still sharing apartments in your 30s). Someone I had lived with briefly 10 years earlier. She was relocating back to the east coast after a divorce, and I had an empty room, so she moved in for what was supposed to be a…