I’m in a similar situation. Fun fact! In Chinese families, the wife doesn’t usually take the husband’s family name.

A man who’s going to bounce will do it no matter what you name the kid.

My brother and sister-in-law gave their child her maiden name as a first name, but it only works because her maiden name kind of works as a first name. If it had been like Shlinglhorn or something, it wouldn’t have worked out I imagine.