You're weirdly defensive about Madonna's face.

Obviously I'm not saying it's your fault addicts use. I'm saying your dismissive, black & white view of the issue and sweeping generalizations are poisonous and deeply damaging.

Melissa, I don't want addicts in my life either, and the ones I've had in my family were fucking assholes. And frankly, it pissed me off that I was supposed to forgive their vile behavior because now they were now in recovery and expecting sympathy. Like, if I know some kid shot me because he grew up poor and abused,…