@lolacat(ΩΜ): i agree with your point on it but i think the issue is that lots of other kinds of surgeries are a)not only regulated and recommended by doctors but include follow-up that seeks to address how the patient is coping, and b)not tainted with the same kind of societal judgement. in most cases women who have…

Alright question from the new jezzie to the ones who have been here longer: how the hell do you highlight someone's name when you are replying to them?

@BowlingForDollars, @BAngieB : hahaha, I know it seems strange, none of my queer girlfriends get it. (Actually coming to think of it very few of the straight ones do either)

See i'm one of those rare female exceptions who thinks the penis is a thing of beauty. I'm extremely attracted to them. I like to touch them and smell them and rub them against my cheek and my skin, and taste them and lick them. Porn only turns me on if a penis enters the scene within 30 seconds regardless of how sexy…

And the second thing is that as far as Michelle Obama is concerned this type of frat-boy racial humor is not an isolated incident. It's been going on for at least a month and this is only a harbinger of much more to come.

I think Michelle Obama's use of irony in connection to her husband doesn't give anyone the right to categorize in this way and if they do it is our duty to call it what it is "racist." People of color not being able to talk about themselves or be tongue-in-cheek because some bigot might take it as a license to insult…

@eatsshootsleaves

i don't personally think she's bitter but i think people interpret her actions as such because there is this keen, almost palpable sense of disappointment that you can feel when you look at her. and most people engage in some level of transferrence because they would be bitter if they were in that situation. so they…